Imagine you’re networking.
And a stranger asks you The Most Popular Networking Question Ever:
What do you do?
What’s your answer?
Most people’s is one of two:
- Their job title – “I’m an Accountant”
- Their main activity – “I prepare Tax Returns”
Both are correct.
But both are dull.
Also, they aren’t ‘conversation starters’, are they? In fact, the only response I can think of to “I’m an Accountant” is “Oh. Are you?”
Instead, when introducing yourself, focus on your AFTERs. In other words, why people are better-off AFTER you’ve done your work.
For example, the Accountant could say “I help people pay less tax than they thought possible”
Now, that is a conversation starter – “Wow – how do you do that?” And you’re off-and-running.
If saying your AFTERs feels odd, state your original sentence first (job title or main activity), and then your AFTERs. This means your options are:
- I’m an Accountant
- I prepare Tax Returns
- I help people pay less tax than they thought possible
- I’m an Accountant, so I help people pay less tax than they thought possible
The last two are much more interesting, and conversation-starting.
You can use AFTERs to introduce anything. For example, if you’re outlining your Marketing Strategy for next year, you could use one of these four introductions:
- Here’s our Marketing Strategy
- I’m going to tell you our Marketing Strategy for next year
- Here’s how we’ll ensure we hit all next year’s sales targets
- Here’s our Marketing Strategy, confirming how we’ll hit all next year’s sales targets
Again, the last two are miles better.
You’ll be introducing something today – yourself, your communications, your… anything.
And, after your first sentence, your audience will either be:
- Leaning forwards – “Wow. Tell me more”; or
- Leaning backwards – “I know what you’re about to talk about. But it sounds dull”
Which will it be?
Action Point
Re-write your introduction for your next communication. The more they see why they’re better-off AFTER listening to it, the more they’ll listen to you.
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